From the Back CoverWhy is a trip to the garbage dump such a highlight in a boy's life?Have you ever been confused by what makes your son tick? Do you sometimes find yourself wondering why your boy acts the way he does? Well, you're not alone. If boys are going to grow into men of integrity, they must learn loyalty, compassion, honor, courage, and perseverance as children. Let's be honest: raising sons to be good men is a tremendous challenge.Recognizing the incredible value of a mother's influence on her son's life, Rick Johnson offers a practical, commonsense approach to help moms like you prepare for the challenges that will come as your boy grows. In That's My Son, Johnson combines refreshing honesty with extensive research and humorous insight to tackle topics like communication, sexuality, discipline, and respect. Maybe you're a little overwhelmed at the idea of raising your son to be a man of character. Or perhaps you're wondering how to talk with your boy so that he will listen. Whatever your situation, you will find wise counsel and encouragement in this helpful and reassuring book.Rick Johnson is founder of Better Dads, a fathering skills program that allows him to deliver seminars to businesses, churches, hospitals, prisons, and schools across the Northwest.About the AuthorRick Johnson is a bestselling author of That's My Son; That's My Teenage Son; That's My Girl; Better Dads, Stronger Sons; and Becoming Your Spouse's Better Half. He is the founder of Better Dads and is a sought-after speaker at many large parenting and ma what are some interesting books to read That's My Son: How Moms Can Influence Boys to Become Men of Character
11 of 11 people found the following review helpful. Great Insight to All Males--Not Just My Kids!By Mom of BoysI love that this book was written by a man. It gave me a lot of insight into my HUSBAND as well as my boys (I have three--and no girls, so there's a lot of testosterone around here!) Mr. Johnson does a great job of writing TO females ABOUT males. He uses specific examples of behaviors that frustrate most wives/moms, and then he explains them. You don't get the feeling that he is offering up excuses for boys. He explains, and then gives suggestions on how to use it to your advantage.One example: He talks about how women want to have serious talks with eye contact, etc. That makes boys nervous and they shut down. He suggested talking to them while they are a little occupied. I started hanging out in the driveway with my 10 year old, rebounding his basketball shots, and I was amazed at the things he'd open up about. At first I just listened to whatever was on his mind at the moment, but quickly I would bring up things I wanted to talk about, and he'd respond!There are a lot of things like that in the book. It is definitely worth buying--I've read it several times and made tons of notes to myself...I go back for a "refresher" once in a while.2 of 2 people found the following review helpful. Insightful and practicalBy Samantha AI was hesitant that this book would place too much emphasis on religion...but I think it makes a valid point about the role of religion in a child's life (no matter what that religion is even if it is just a spirituality). Right after this book, I read a book on the same topic but written by a pediatrician with two sons. I did not think her book was as insightful as Johnson's (and she also agreed with the role of religion). Johnson has a very engaging narrative style that makes his points at the same time holding your attention. He also entertains you with relevant stories to demonstrate his points making the book and enjoyable and quick read. Mom's will definitely walk away having learned a thing or two about how boys - and men - think. And while there are certain male specific pieces of advice that have to do with how boys think and what motivates them....I should point out that much of the advice he gives would also be applicable raising daughters with character (holding your kids accountable, providing good role models, for instance).0 of 0 people found the following review helpful. So thankful for the boy perspectiveBy CustomerA great book, discussed many things that I had not thought of, I took notes and changed the way I approach my son on things and our relationship is better. Before he was always so quiet and now he talks more! So thankful for the boy perspective this book gave me. Highly recommend it, and it is an easy read!